Do you desire MORE in your relationship?

More than the wounding, pain and recurring triggers that seem to be the norm...

WE SEE YOU!

You desire to have a soul-satisfying relationship and heart connection… but you were never taught how.


And there aren’t many role models showing you what else is possible.


So you walked into the relationship with absolutely no knowledge on what it takes to keep the relationship, let alone take your relationship to the next level.


You came together with dreams of doing more in the world than work, pay bills, trigger one another, love conditionally, seek a short-lived peak experience and superficial connection during sex (or feel nothing at all) and die.


But between work, life’s obligations, daily stress, kids, financial difficulties, health problems, and mile-long to-do lists, your relationship took a backseat.


You’re now comfortable with one another… complacency in your sex life sets in, if it still exists… problems get shoved under the rug… promises never happen… important conversations cease to exist… and months turn into years.


You thought that the excitement and lust during the honeymoon stage would last forever… and now you’re seeing all the red flags you wish you would’ve seen at the beginning.


Fights are occurring more frequently, and usually revolve around the same shit.

Your partner knows your triggers and they’re being set off often.


Maybe there’s been infidelity or an overall loss of trust in your partner.


Maybe you don’t feel an intimate connection with your partner, despite whether you’re having sex or not.


Maybe you struggle communicating with your partner about these hard to discuss issues.


Divorce is off the table due to any number of reasons.

You love your partner, but you may not be as in love with your partner as you once were.

NOW IMAGINE ALL THE TRAUMAS & WOUNDS THAT YOUR PARENTS DIDN'T HEAL, NOR THEIR PARENTS...

These traumas and wounds were passed on to you, including all the unhealed traumas and wounds from all past generations.

FOR EXAMPLE:

13 Generations (Approximately 400-500 Years) = 16,382 Ancestors

It's been proven by epigenetics that we inherit our ancestor's traumas and wounds, and the physiological changes that were a result of them. They're stored in your DNA and will be passed on to the next generation if not healed by you. They remain in the lineage until someone chooses to heal them.


Add that to your own pile of traumas, childhood wounds, past relationship baggage, lack of self-love, feeling like you are too much or not feeling like you are good enough.


(Most of which were the same traumas and wounds that your ancestors struggled with.)


These are the wounds that play out in your relationships as triggers, anger, pain, jealousy, insecurities, codependency, addictions, infidelity, distrust, poor communication, lack of connection, control, a masculine - feminine power struggle and most importantly, a lack of pleasure (the pleasure of living, not just sexual pleasure).


This is the REAL reason your life and relationship aren't what you envisioned them to be.

THE HARD TRUTH...

Couples are looking for DIVINE UNION... yet divine union isn't possible in your relationship until it is first achieved within yourself, between your inner feminine (body) and masculine (mind).


We are here to remind you of the pathway home to divine union - the healing of your mind-body split that is mirrored in your inner masculine-feminine split.

WARRIOR COUPLE RETREAT

BIRTHING AUTHENTICITY, COMMITMENT & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

We create a safe and sacred container for you to dissolve all the armor that has been between you and your partner for far too long that's physically manifesting as disconnection, disembodiment, lack of intimacy, dishonesty, inability to openly communicate, fear, and repetitive triggers.


We help you remember how to heal together as a couple... and how to heal the triggers as fast as they arise.

Retreat Includes:

  • Initial Consultation & Health Survey
  • Pre-Retreat Questionnaire & Support Over Text
  • Plant Medicine Ceremonies
  • Integration between the Ceremonies
  • 1 Follow-Up Cannabis Integration Ceremony on Zoom Within 3 Months
  • Notes & Integration Practices (PDF, Audio, &/or Video)
  • Womb / Hara Cleansing Protocols

WE OFFER 2 ITINERARIES

The following itinerary is for couples.

*Prerequisites include attendance in Womb Kriya or Hara Kriya Ceremonies and a daily self - healing practice.

5-Day Retreat


Each partner will receive:

  • 3 Kambo Ceremonies
  • 1 Bufo Ceremony
  • 1 Cannabis Ceremony
  • 1 Psilocybin or Black Cannabis Ceremony

Investment: $5,500

7-Day Retreat


Each partner will receive:

  • 3 Kambo Ceremonies
  • 1 Bufo Ceremony
  • 2 Cannabis Ceremonies
  • 1 Psilocybin or Black Cannabis Ceremony
  • Black Cannabis Couples Ceremony

Investment: $8,800

*Retreat Investment does not include airfare or accomodations.

UPGRADE YOUR RETREAT

Align your retreat with 1 of your SACRED SECRETIONS

And experience a QUANTUM RELATIONSHIP REBIRTH

For one of your Ceremonies (Kambo, Bufo, or Cannabis), you'll both receive a fully embodied Watsu rebirth in one of our many waterfalls, rivers or hot springs.


Imagine being deep in medicine as your partner is holding and floating you in a body of water as you're being guided to surrender to your rebirth and become ONE with all of nature's elements.


During all of your ceremonies, the practices and rituals will be part of our Sacred Secretion Somatic Sequence so that you can imprint the memory of this sequence into your body and mind to carry home with you and into all future Sacred Secretion Rebirths.

SACRED SECRETION UPGRADE

Most importantly, you'll remember how to pop one another through pain portals during your bi-monthly Sacred Secretion Rebirth.

5-Day Couples Retreat Investment:


$6,600

7-Day Couples Retreat Investment:


$10,000

OUR STRUCTURE

  • Kambo purges that which keeps you and both of your lineages stuck.
  • Bufo introduces you to your ego.
  • Cannabis introduces you to your pain body as you remember how to awaken your inner healer through the 7 Shakti Activators.
  • Psilocybin or Black Cannabis carries you deeper into your pain as you navigate your body, using your inner healer and props to transmute the pain.

During Your Retreat, You Will Receive:

  • Sex & Relationship Coaching, Rituals & Techniques
  • Bodywork (Chiropractic & Fascial Modalities)
  • Self-Healing Techniques (your take away practice)
  • Transformational Breathwork & Meditation Practices
  • Somatic Practices
  • Infrared Sauna Therapy (Modern Day Temazcal)
  • Ice Bath Therapy

In this retreat, you will:

  • Drop deep into your body and awaken your FEELING presence, meeting your trauma self / pain body and remembering how to move through them and transmute stuck energy to energy that flows
  • Activate your inner technology (AYIT) - your inner healer
  • Remember powerful self-healing practices that you can do daily
  • Be guided in how to restore divine union within you so that you can create divine union in your relationship
  • Remember WHO you are, WHY you're here, and the WHY you chose to be in a relationship with your partner
  • Understand why you are creating your relationship the way it is showing up, and how to change what you are creating
  • Receive transformative rituals and practices to carry home with you to continue your healing journey as a couple
  • Learn how to communicate from your higher self instead of your triggered or wounded self
  • Receive transformative techniques that diffuse arguments, anger and triggers within minutes
  • Inner-stand how to navigate from unconscious sex to conscious sex to sacred sexuality through ejaculation / orgasm retention

Our Retreat Is For You If:

  • you have a knowing that your relationship could be better or it's in serious trouble
  • you & your partner get into arguments too often
  • you feel lost on where to begin healing
  • your relationship is lacking open and honest communication, trust, intimacy, sexual connection, unconditional love, and/or the divine union you know is possible(or it's missing something but you don't know what)
  • your relationship has experienced infidelity
  • you struggle being sharing your feelings with your partner
  • you feel blockages in your relationship that create separation / a disconnect
  • you love your partner, but yearn for a deeper heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul connection, but don't know how to get there
  • you desire to reignite the passion, excitement, ease, joy and fun (honeymoon phase) no matter how long you've been together
  • either one of you or both of you are struggling with sexual dysfunction (inability to feel pleasure or reach orgasm, painful sex, low libido, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex or porn addiction, etc.)
  • either one of you or both of you have experienced sexual abuse or traumas (including self-inflicted shame, judgments, rejection, fears, etc.)
  • recurring toxic patterns, childhood wounds and triggers keep resurfacing in your relationship
  • you've done marriage counseling, relationship coaching or even tantra, but still feel like there's something missing
  • you desire to learn how plant medicine can be an ally in healing your relationship and taking it to the next level
  • you've experienced plant medicine before (recreationally or group ceremony), but you've never experienced them in a 1-on-1 guided sacred ceremony for you and your partner
  • you resonate with our work and feel called to work with us

WE'RE INTERESTED!

What Our Soul Family Has To Say

I just want to say how incredibly happy I am that our paths crossed. For yours and Kumar’s guidance. The safety I felt to journey into the unknown and witness the self that has always been waiting for me to claim. And a bonus, having a kundalini awakening in my very first ceremony with you. A gift I will always honor you with for this awakening. You helped to rebirth me and for that I am ever grateful. Your gift in awakening your sisters and brothers to wake them up is your calling and purpose.

Amanda

I highly recommend Dr. Shelly & Kumar for plant medicine ceremonies & retreats. Unlike most other practitioners, she provides a quiet, comfortable and safe space, as well as personal guidance and much needed bodywork. This allows you to make the most of your experience. Her support after the retreat is excellent as well.

John

When I met Kumar and Dr. Shelly, I was addicted to cigarettes, cannabis, video games, coffee and porn. After a week retreat, I ended all addictions. It's been 6 months post-retreat, and I'm still free of these addictions because they guided me into the root cause of my addictions and helped me to heal this root cause from both my mind and body. I won't lie - it's challenging at times, but I'm eternally grateful.

Alex

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Are plant medicines for me?

First and foremost, you must feel called to participate in a plant medicine ceremony and be ready to make changes in your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual life. Each ceremony must be taken seriously, with sacred intentions, and not for recreational purposes. Plant Medicines are powerful healing allies for anyone looking to heal their body, reframe their mindset, and retrieve lost parts of their soul.

Second, Mother Earth has provided us with these plant medicines in order to heal. Why would our body have receptors for the chemicals in these medicines if plant medicines weren't for humans?

Third, plant medicines are safe. Although they can induce temporary confusion or emotional turmoil, hospitalizations & serious injuries are extremely rare.

Are there any contraindications?

Prior to booking a plant medicine retreat, we'll send you a health survey to fill out. There are some medications, specifically MAOI's, that cannot be taken with most plant medicines, or will require a fast for a few weeks prior. If you struggle with schizophrenia, severe depression, or other serious mental health concerns, we'll have an interview with you to see if you are mentally prepared to embark on a healing journey with plant medicine.

What results will I see?

The medicines work in different ways with different people, therefore every person experiences a different journey with different results, AND every individual journey may be different for you with different results. The best results occur when you completely surrender to the plant, let go of all expectations and trust that you will receive what you need (even if it doesn't look the way you expected). The plant spirit always knows exactly what you need to heal, see, feel, hear, experience, and learn. The real work will occur between you and the plant (the teacher).

We joke that if you don't leave transformed, we will give you your money back. BUT if you leave transformed, you will pay double. ;)

What will we experience during the ceremonies?

You may experience everything from bodily sensations (pain, trembling, shaking, tingling, numbness, pleasure) to physical purging (yawning, crying, laughing, sweating, diarrhea, vomiting, sweating) to ah-ha awarenesses, repressed emotions showing up, reliving past experiences, mental imagery, deep relaxation, etc. The medicines work on a deep, energetic level beyond what we're able to consciously perceive.


You will NOT be served the medicine and lay back and journey with it from your mind. You will be guided into your PAIN body so that you can feel the PAIN of traumas stored in your BODY as you let go of the STORIES of traumas stored in your MIND.


As a couple, you will come to face with all those elephants you shoved under the rug in your relationship. You both will be invited to call forth those traumas and wounds to feel them and heal them.

What are the chances of a bad journey?

First, the medicines will only show you what you can handle. Second, we don't believe in bad journeys. Instead, the journey may be challenging as you recall painful or traumatic thoughts, memories, feelings or emotions. This is necessary in order to move beyond the pain or trauma. We will be there to guide you through the experience and if it becomes too much for you to handle, we do have alternative medicine blends available that help to reduce the effects of the medicine and the challenging experience.

We're on the verge of divorce - will this work for us?

Unfortunately, a divorce is like putting a bandaid over the problem, and it will show up again in the next relationship.

The best time to heal your relationship (which mirrors your relationship with self) is NOW.

We can't promise that this retreat will save your relationship, as only YOU have the power to heal and save your relationship.

But we can promise you that you will receive the healing you require for your evolution, whether that means staying in the relationship or parting ways (at least you'll part having healed so the chance of the same traumas and wounds showing up in the next relationship will be reduced).

We're in a new relationship - how will this retreat help us?

The perfect time to participate in this retreat is at the beginning of the relationship so that you can become aware of and heal your individual traumas and wounds before they start tearing the relationship apart.

If you don't heal these traumas and wounds, they will begin to appear in your relationship over time as triggers, arguments, pain, lack of intimacy, distrust, and disconnection.

Will a retreat like this help if 1 partner has cheated?

Yes, absolutely.

First, the healing will address why infidelity occurred (underlying unhealed trauma or wound).

Second, the healing will focus on rebuilding trust and creating a safe space that allows for open and honest communication.

Will a retreat like this help if 1 partner has an addiction?

Yes, absolutely.

The healing will address the root cause of the addiction (addictions are voids caused by underlying unhealed traumas or wounds).

RETREAT GALLERY

We help you remember how to HEAL you and return home to DIVINE UNION!

©Soul Warriors Retreat 2024